Aftermath

[TimR]

Thanks JujuB. That is what I am working, acting with my head and not my emotions. I think there are several catalysts for this, me moving on and dating someone, her not getting a raise from me and she throws herself at guys in front of me at S13's sporting events, S13 pulling away from her as she tries to pull him away from me, and S13 telling her he does not want her to come to his big important tournament this weekend.

Well maybe she will eventually learn you can't blame someone else for everything that goes wrong in your life, sometime you gotta look in the mirror and say 'Maybe its me and my decisions.'

I am still to the point I do not care what she does, who she sees or really anything about her. However, now her decisions are going to affect the kids which is just wrong. Also something I thought she would never do... endanger her kids but obviously when considering what I would think a sane person would never do is generally her first instinct.