I have a hard time letting go. Im trying but i feel i may not be DBing enough.

My wife is making plans with me, asking me out for movies. Yet she maintains (or is trying to) that she has no feelings for me.

We maintain a bit of contact during the day even though i try not to initiate it. Mostly revolving our son.

Its almost like we are a normal happy family minus the affection between husband and wife. Im wondering should i pull away, LRT, or maintain the happy family thing? GAl is not much of an option cause i had plenty of that, infact that seems to be the primary reason for our predicament.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.