We're still sharing a bed, but I'm coming to see that any physical contact is bad. It makes it impossible for me to detach.

He put his hand on my head while I was reading to our youngest son last night, and I choked up.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16