I'll look into the coaching.

I'm not opposed to detaching and going dark, but I need to do it without appearing to be pouting or angry, and that's a tough line for me to figure out.

I see a lot of yard work on my future. It gets me out of the house and away from him, yet my kids can still come find me to chat while I work.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16