You took that goodbye way too personally. Yes it wasn't nice to be on the receiving end, but IMO this was not about you. Your H has his own issues and is obviously havingpproblems in his interactions.Try to look at it as him not being capable rather than him consciously directing his crap at you.

He now has apologised. I hope you can put it out of your mind and enjoy the beauty of Paris.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together