Thank you for your post V, I am just trying to focus on my kids and me. Making their lives as stable and loving as possible. Picked up some books on activities in our area so I can plan my weekends with them. Going to get back to playing hockey to as I've been getting more of a routine in place. If my W wants to see me as a family man in a negative way then it will be her loss, I chose to have children, I am a family man because my kids deserve it. There is no shame in being a family man.

Thank you again V, this was a wonderful post to wake up to this morning.

I wish you all the best in your future.