It's the Psyc Evals, I know in my country each cost $20k. 2 parents and 5 boys, that will run a real tab!
There's gotta be a way to get a court order for her to not skip town with the boys until D is final. Once u have that in place than try to go to mediation in liu of having a custody battle with Psyc Evals and all.
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