Tim, I'm sorry but I'm glad you've reached a point where you feel like moving ahead. I'm really sorry about your WW, but as a lawyer yourself, you're probably more aware as to what or what cannot be done to keep this guy away from your S's in your state.
This is awful. It's so sad that it sounds like your WW has some self-destructive tendencies that could affect the boys in some way. Best of luck buddy. I'm glad they've got you in their lives.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)