That is a big part of it, yelling at them does give them the attention they seem drawn towards, when we are GAL and detached it's a curve they are not expecting so they will do a little dance, tug on a shirt, maybe even act up just to get some attention and once they have it ... It's back to your regular MLC broadcast. The guilt is always there, sometimes that is validated, sometimes it bubbles up like a volcano and is released a bit by the various outbursts till they can figure out how to justify the behavior.
Least that's my nickel from what I've learned in all this
