Hi Ciluzen - I see a theme with your h's constant apologizing and his "you only tolerate/put up with me" comments. I am wondering if this could be projection from childhood? Hmm. It seems he's looking for something by bringing it up constantly?

Kudos to you for taking care of you and for hitting the books again. In general, I find the website Kahn Academy to be great for refreshers!

Hope you are managing to get some rest as preparing a house for sale is a tremendous amount of work.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced