I would not have a couple of glasses of wine! You need to be in control and listen, not talk. Maybe you're more tolerant to alcohol than me, but a couple of glasses of wine would have me saying everything that went through my mind with no filtering...
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17