Just checking in. I have been digesting the idea of life after marriage and the changes in store for me. It's seemed overwhelming at first but now I think it will be rather straight forward. Emotionally I am working on myself, go to IC and considering the possibilities.
My advice for newbies is focus on yourself. I worked on myself in relation to the marriage. I did not grow in the way I am now. I am glad for the growth but it wasn't directed solely for me. The work I did was good but did not make a lick of difference in saving my marriage.
Bottom line, work on yourself for you. Your spouse fell in love with you when you were yourself. Find and cultivate yourself, be strong
