Jeep, I have some thoughts on this for you, but it can't write a reply at the moment. I'm a bit caught up in some rubbish.

I've just discovered that OW is *twenty* years younger than me. What the heck? Seriously? It's like a cliche.

It means she wasn't even 23 years old when this whole sorry saga started.

How, just how, could my H find someone twenty years younger than me *that* interesting?

Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017