Yes, I still have a long haul in the detaching area. He still has his struggle, but I guess I'm afraid that even when we aren't working on the house together, I may not have mattered enough for him to EVER feel my loss when I'm gone. We have fun and are comfortable together, but what does that mean to someone who is convinced I just tolerate him?
Ciluzen, please don't be too hard on yourself. You have detached amazingly in a relatively short period of time. This stuff is hard! I'm sure your WAH will feel the loss some day. I hope they all will! I only hope it's not too late when they do. The way you handle every interaction with your WAH and the way you're out there finding yourself again is such an inspiration to me, and I'm sure many others on here. Keep doing what you're doing, you're amazing! x
