I agree! It's none of his business what goes on in your house anymore, with the dog or anyone/anything else! Funny how they want this but they cannot truly let go. My H does exactly the same. He is always saying "You shouldn't do that." or "You should do that." I want to scream at him that he no longer lives here, but of course I just grin and bear it.
How said that he has more important things to do than see his kids. If I didn't live with my kids I'd be clambering to see them as often and for as long as I could. I will never understand people who don't as long as I live. I'm so proud of you for the acceptance you have come to over your situation. It is not easy by any means to accept our uninvited situations. You're doing great! x
