Yeah it's been awhile! I've been busy working, looking for a new job and GALing. I've had several conversations with the W. The last one was yesterday morning, she was complaining and fighting about the house being dirty. I usually ignore it, but I HATE when there is so much negativity in the morning and I stood up to her. I told her that it looks just like it did when she left at 10:30 the night before, and that it does'nt clean itself. I told her that she is seeing it worse than it is. She got real mad and started saying that we have different goals and will never see eye to eye. I said what do goals have to do with cleaning the house?! She left, saying that I don't know half of the pressure that she is under... Then she texts me that she is sorry, she doesn't mean to take it out on me, she just has a lot on her mind. I waited several hours and responded I understand. Yeah I've done some pursuing, but for the most part I've been aloof, hanging with the kids. She cleaned the house before she left last night though...and this morning said she was trying to not be so angry in the morning. I said good, it's better for you and better for the kids.
