Headed for D - Trying to move on

[J5K]

Painter,

When W said she wanted to reconcile she kept doing things to show that she did and then said that she only wanted to co-parent. By the time I realized that we had signed a purchase agreement on the house.

As far as cost for L's, my L stated that conservatively the cost for this D could be as high as 50K. My L is the mother of a friend of mine from college.

Also I know my MIL is the enabler to WW. FIL wants WW out of his house and does not want to raise my boys. He has made that clear well over a year ago to both W and I. MIL and WW do not listen to FIL and keep secrets from him all the time.