NYGal: hopeful? Not so much

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I think that's fine NYG and I do think having no expectations is important.

Also, please consider your own boundaries here. How long do things need to be 'over' with OW for you to be interested in possible R? Your W was just away with OW, so I would presume not yet as you know she may cycle back to OW.

Do remember that you are truly the prize here and if your W wants you to consider a possible R, she needs to do some serious work here.

So, cool and steady, sit back, listen and let her know you'll need to think about things....

Xx