Thanks otw... I know you get it... out of all people you get it and I appreciate the responses more than you know.
The weird thing is I have no desire to file. I can see my WW using that too easily (ie... 'hey I am not the one who filed for divorce, you did"). What I would do is push her to make a decision though and if she decided to file than that is what I am OK with. If that makes sense.
Anyway, we will both get through it. Thanks again!