Pinn I really do get it. I know i want to live life, I want to move forward from this no mans land. I know everyone here will say well then go do it, but I had a picture of doing things in life with my family, things with my wife. I want to share these things with someone. Of course i can still do the things with my kids, but i wanted to share with a partner.
so, yes i get it.
If you want to give it a push , wait the two months and file. I know that is not popular here, but i know it is time to take back your life.
again, my opinions may always not be the most popular, but mine.
also, i am sure she is aware of the 12 month rule as well. My w once said to me early on in my situation "you are acting like we have been like this for a year" that stuck with me heavily. no clue why but almost like they are tracking some kind of time.
keep me posted on what you do
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15