More detachment, anxiety and the joys of limbo

[Painter]

Phoebe, I don't know how I missed your post yesterday, but I am SO SORRY! ((((Phoebe))))

I'm not going to say that I can't imagine what you feel, because I can, all too well.

It will get better with time. This is probably your lowest point, and it will eventually get better. Perhaps you felt a little more energized yesterday because anger will do that.

When it comes to what you do now - is there a way you can lock up all funds besides regular income until something is decided? I don't know if there is a legal option besides S/D to do that, but in my mind, it's like you're dealing with a family member who is in a manic phase and you have to take care of the practical things, including securing funds. That's how I look at H - I am sad to do certain things and hate to have to, but one of us has to take care of business.