To ignore or not to ignore?

[collin]

sr9,
I know what you mean about it being hard to not get your hopes up. My W one night asks me to sleep in the bed with her and hold her all night. Then next day she's telling me about her new place, furniture, etc.. I'm like, "wait, won't we just..." Sometimes you feel like the door is opening up just to get slammed back in your face. I think the safe thing is to just to not assume anything. Don't set yourself up for failure.