Yesterday's gone. Tomorrows not here... (4)

[Jb9140]

Wish i had the perfect answer for you, but I don't. these are definitely personal choices that need to be made. Divorce is definitely a big decision. I will give you a couple observation though. First you sound very discouraged; which I truly understand. so i would definitely not make any decisions for a couple days. secondly it hasn't been a year yet, but maybe it's time to truly re-asses the situation. When I say re-asses, i mean write it all down and share it with some trusted friends. One last thought is that it seems you may be struggling with detaching, I know i do. Go out and do something fun this weekend. I plan on heading to the gulf and fishing Saturday with a friend.