I'm so sorry to hear it, Painter. My H's few communications are also very business-like and so weirdly casual. They ought to cause nothing at all, reaction-wise, but they make me feel badly.

(((Painter))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16