That's an awesome observation, Painter.

You know, my W is a master at playing the victim. So good,in fact, that her lies to go along with it will have ones head spinning. My IC, who was also our MC, feels that my Ws behavior was a form of control. Ugh.

There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.