Yes, i did want to add the inheritance into the D, but guess that's her winning, since it riles her up and pushes her away.
I wholly agree with you painter, control is very important for me. But that is something that i need to work on.
As for counselling, the Dr (Psychiatrist) says that there's no hope in couples counselling, and we should have IC. She says to hold out for D for now and focus on ourselves.
The WW is not keen cos she can deal with things apparently. The WW still clearly wants a D, as her feelings have changed towards me, blah blah blah.
The Dr did say that we need to start seeing the value in each other and stop trying to tear each other down. I need to be less analytical and controlling (WW doing her own thing) and WW needs to stop trying to taunt me to get a reaction. Dr's words were not even finished and my WW just started again with blaming me.
Dr also said that I should not be on a forum, as it is counter-productive. She also does not believe in the whole WW thing, and did not even want to discuss the previous WW incident from 2014. So not sure that I want to do IC with her. Not sure that I want to leave this forum either as it is such a positive thing in my life, and i can see real change, by being my own man.
My turning stomach is still there a little, but that is just fear of the unknown - i need to embrace that for now.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
