One thing that I am learning and have seen consistently in these forums is that this is a marathon. It will take time and consistent changes in ourselves to rekindle what was lost that led us to now.
Remember to try and not read into every action or comment that our spouse makes as that will get us no where. We have to stay focused on ourselves and the permanent changes that we need to make to be the person only a fool would leave.
Cadet posts in the homework that our WAS has given us a gift. The gift of time. Use it wisely.
Become the best you possible and do it without any expectations from the WAS and then let the rest go as it may. You will come out for the better no matter what happens. I share this with you as I continue to try and make it permenant in my own thoughts and actions. Easier said than done, but it really is the ideas that make the most sense for each of us to be successful.
My prayers and hope for a positive outcome go out to you in these challenging times.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
