If only there were some MLC Detox drink out on the market.

Mleigh - I think it's interesting that your h has seemed jealous of your s since birth. And I think many of these MLCers came from such phemonenally dysfunctional homes that they confuse normal child rearing with spoiling.

I too noticed my h became increasingly jealous of the attention my kids received from me. It was all so exhausting. The older and more mature they became the more immature he became.

Recently, I read somewhere that they MLCers don't catch up at pivotal moments. The theory is that they were always behind emotionally to begin with (as we all know). Major life moments happen and they don't rise up/grow up to those moments as others do. So there is this disconnect that just keeps growing.

Ok- I'm raising my morning tea to a toast, Mleigh. Here's to a quick MLC cleanse.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced