Rouky, I can't imagine how awful that would feel to find that out. Why do people watch and gossip, but never step in? Its as if the "entertainment value" supersedes the right thing to do.
I remember when I was growing up, if an adult saw another child misbehaving, they stepped in and said something to that child. If another adult was misbehaving, it was confronted, either at the moment or in private. Now, everyone talks about things amongst themselves, but are afraid to say "you're behaving inappropriately". The gray area has spread and black and white are almost non-existent.
I have told my daughters the story of how I came home with flowers for my mother one day. She said,"those are beautiful, but where did you get them?" About then the neighbor from across the street, who had seen me pick them from another neighbor's garden and immediately followed me home, spoke up from behind me (we were outside) and told her I had stolen them. I was made to wrap them up with a bow and a bottle of water and return them to the lady who's garden I had stolen them from, with a full apology. You don't steal flowers from another person's garden.
You also don't carry on with another person's spouse. Wouldn't it be nice if people would speak up and confront wrong behavior instead of just gossip about it? Maybe if confrontation and shame once again re-entered our society, people would choose to work a little harder to grow their own flowers instead of stealing them and getting away with it.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
