Just another thought that I'm interested in hearing others thoughts and experiences.
I've thought about contacting W's parents/sibilings. I haven't acted on this nor would I without lots and lots of serious comtemplation and research on pros/cons. I see LOTS of reasons not to. However, I just wonder what my W's support network would think if they knew what she was doing. I guess my thoughts about this is I'm looking for something to smack my W in the head and say - umm, maybe you could work on your issues a little and stop blaming someone else for where you are.
It is hard to understand her perspective on things as I know she is in a very different place than I am. But it is so odd to me that we are faced with the M crisis and her approach is to do very little if anything and my approach is to soul search, read books, start MC, seek advice, work on myself.
