well, i'm attaching everything to the divorce, including her mothers estate, as there was no will. This will mean that she will leave the marriage with absolutely nothing.
She is deciding to stay for economical reasons, no doubt. I am still plan B. But i need to gain her respect and in time I could be her plan A. So the divorce is on hold, until i lose what little trust i have for her. And it could be anything that makes me doubt her being faithful.
I was also very afraid of that "don't tell me", and other comments, which is why i nipped her behaviour in the bud this morning and telling her that what she's doing is disrespectful - i said that i'm not being jealous or insecure but there are basic things which i won't accept, like flirting with OMs. Should have done that 10 years ago!
Apparently I was rude. Wow, at least i was not asinine like her!
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
