What I was listing was the average HD guy. Every guy is different and could actually have a different priority to their needs. Here are the AVERAGE man and womans needs according to Dr. Harley:
Women #1 Affection Man #1 Sexual Fulfillment Woman #2 Conversation Man #2 Recreational Companionship Woman #3 Honesty and Openness Man #3 Physical Attractiveness Woman #4 Financial Support Man #4 Domestic Support Woman #5 Family Commitment Man #5 Admiration
My own top five differs from the list above, as mine are: #1 Sexual Fullfillment #2 Affection #3 Recreational Companionship #4 Domestic Support #5 Attractiveness
I would bet that you would put communication much higher on your list.