Jonathan:

What I was listing was the average HD guy. Every guy is different and could actually have a different priority to their needs. Here are the AVERAGE man and womans needs according to Dr. Harley:

Women #1 Affection
Man #1 Sexual Fulfillment
Woman #2 Conversation
Man #2 Recreational Companionship
Woman #3 Honesty and Openness
Man #3 Physical Attractiveness
Woman #4 Financial Support
Man #4 Domestic Support
Woman #5 Family Commitment
Man #5 Admiration

My own top five differs from the list above, as mine are:
#1 Sexual Fullfillment
#2 Affection
#3 Recreational Companionship
#4 Domestic Support
#5 Attractiveness

I would bet that you would put communication much higher on your list.