Need advice

[TimR]

CRW. Sorry to read about your sitch. Funny how the WW pushes for the D until you get to the point you want it as bad as they do. Once they realize that you truly want it to, they then pull back from that thought? Why cause they realize their backup plan is no longer there. I went through that and count myself grateful for two things 1. I did not waste too much time in a bad M and 2. I did not spend too much time drudging through limbo. What I have to thank for that is GALing. I started doing many things I have not done in years and years. It started with the idea of I will show WW how good I can be and then started doing it for myself. Once that happened I started enjoying it and my attitude changed. At the same time my attitude changed, opportunities opened. Now I am more happy than even when my WW and I started dating. Obviously that pulled me out of my funk.

Obviously this did not happen over night. There were many sleepless nights, being sick to my stomach, anxiety I have never felt and tears. But time heals wounds. While that is easy to say, I know for you there is confusion and hopelessness. Work through the books and follow the advice of the wise people on this board and maybe you will get back with WW, maybe you will not. But I can promise you this, whatever happens, if you are strong you will find happiness in the future and it will be good. The wounds will heal and you will be a better you than before, either with your WW or with someone more deserving.

I wish you luck my friend.