It's worth mentioning that there's more than one kind of HD and more than one kind of man. CeMar's advice is great if your husband is like CeMar, but just a little off the mark if your husband is like me.
Quote: As far as the sex goes, relaize that if he is HD, then sex IS HIS LIFE. It literally is part of his soul.
Well, it's a REALLY REALLY big part of my life. But there actually are other things that are just as important as sex. If I could have sex with my wife every day, but had to have a fight with her every day in exchange, I'd be celibate. If I had to cheat on her to have sex, I'd be celibate - well son of a gun, I am right now, and have been for 6 years. If I had to sell my daughters to have sex with my wife, I would be celibate. If I had to do chores - that's negotiable, I'll sign up right now!
But sex is certainly #1 on my list of frustrations.
Quote: Sex to a HD man is like communication to a LD wife.
Hmmmm....if I had to give up being able to talk to my wife in order to have sex, I'd be celibate, but man, there are some choices you shouldn't have to make.
Quote: If he had a bad day, you would probably think, I should sit and listen to his problems. WRONG!! Most likely he would prefer SEX.
Well, I'd still like to talk about my problems, but maybe after sex ;->
Quote: Men are VISUALLY oriented (SEX) and not VERBALLY oriented(Communication). He would want to...
Well, there's a lot of variety among men. I'm very kinaesthetic, tactile, and auditory, very intuitive, and very verbal. Doesn't stop me from being an off-the-Richter-scale HD. But I'm not really all that visual. I'd rather have my wife in a silk nightie than in a thong (I also think a silk nightie looks better ;-> ).
