Found out that there wete rumours about my H cheating on me going round in his work place
It really infuriates me when I read stupid advice columns or articles that advise against telling the person who is being cheated on. Sure, you run the risk that they won't believe you or will "kill the messenger". But a true friend wouldn't care about that. And I really believe that every person has the right to decide on their own whether they want to remain with a cheater or not. Plus, in this age of AIDS, you could be contributing to someone's death by not informing them they are at risk!
Most people are weak and hide behind the fiction that "she must already know." NO SHE DOESN'T! Cheaters are very good at fooling you.
