All right. So I've been reading almost everyday for the last couple months. The last couple week I've been reading a lot of old stories of success from a few years or so back.
First, I've been selfish and taken my wife for granit the last couple years. That being said, the way she has walked away, gotten into a affair, or what ever she's done is completely unacceptable to me. Today I've finally starting to understand that I've got to man up. Regardless what transpires in the next year in regards to my wife's relationships or lack of, I'm working on me
I finally see my main problem is action. I've set on the sidelines my whole life and rolled with the punches. I finally seeing that my wife truly is a emotional terrorist. Well no longer in regards to me.
I'm fully committed to DBting the [censored] out of this situation I,m in. I'm committed to take action and journaling as much as possible.
I'm committed to becoming a divorce busting success story. Which will not be contingent on me saving my marriage
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015