Hi mate

Yea, she's had the baby. I don't know if it's cramping his style. I doubt it at the moment. You know what it's like having your first (known about in his case) child.

Anyway I'm in an interesting position right now. Basically my STBXW wants to divorce me due to the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage rather than me divorcing her due to her adultry. For some reason she's arguing that me divorcing her due to her adultry will somehow deteriorate our non existing R to the detriment of S10.

I know this is kind reading but to be the shame of what she's done is starting to play on her mind. I'm going to contact her directly about this but before I do I may well just re post here to see what others think.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.