Wife files divorce after I confronted her 2nd EA

[rich4j]

CWOL

In the same boat with you with paying support starting shortly and at age 50 being alone for the first time in 13 years or so.....And have a D7....its too hard

Perhaps she will see what a mistake she has made but it seems many don't whether its the H or W that is the driver of the divorce

My STBX blames me every chance she gets on anything ...the other day...those faces you make is why we are getting divorced? Really?

It is unfair to not want the divorce , have to pay dearly for it both financially and emotionally, and be stuck in the lonely cloud of being part of the divorce.

I hope you can get through it as doing stuff/GAl'ing will help but also a support system around you. It's hard...I struggle daily and then have good days. Be the best parent you can and the rest hopefully takes care of itself. Focus on S11!!!!