Husband looking for support

[rich4j]

I got to the forum too late....I didn't move out and the relationship was already toast after 11 years and she was not willing to do anything. DB'ing did nothing

I will only say be careful on the moving out piece just from a legal standpoint. It can hurt you if this doesn't work out in the long run .....

Maybe she just does need space and you both can reconnect. Some therapy is just not good these days as I went thru it. I did have a friend who went thru the emotionally focused therapy together which helped them reconnect.

Good luck to you!