Wow!! I'm so sorry for your pain. I really hope that you get a lawyer ASAP. I've been dealing with my situation today as best as I can, but DAMN!! That his horrible info you found, but I truly would rather know now then later. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Me-LBH, 44 Spouse-WAW, 41 Married for 9 years S, 7 S, 5 BD - November 20th 2015