I Forgot to mention - the soonest appointment I can get it the lawyer I already talked to is next Monday. I have a call in to another office, but nothing there yet.

Until then, I am maintaining NC with H and keeping my cards close, as they say. No mention of it to him.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16