Job, It is not a business trip he's having with his team, they are going for summer break during June, that's why I'm a bit confused, I'm not expressing that MLCer can not have their life, I'm just wondering, if they are having depression, do they really have that mood for any kinds of sightseeing aboard ?
Yes, it's a change in environment for them. It's all about changing things to make them feel better. He may go on the trip and discover he's not happy at all. I suggest you visit Bright's threads over on the MLC Forum. Her h is doing things that you would think a depressed person wouldn't want to do...but he is...why? Because it's a change from the routine.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Job, thanks! I think I get it. It's like the MLCer try everything in every way to be ok with themselves, to be fine until they face the real issue/demon within himself.
(He stopped pushing me for divorce and he gives 1/6 of his salary to my account every month. Which I'm grateful for now)
