If you reach out to her she will just see it as pursuing and it will hurt your long-term goal of reconciliation. It will make you look desperate, weak, and unattractive. It will drive her further away. You are legally divorced now so you need to carve out your own path, instead of clinging to the past. It's tough but it's the only way forward.
Exactly....if you wish to ever work things out then you have to wait on her to contact you. Continue to work on yourself, and move forward. Notice i didn't say move on as that is your choice. One never knows what could happen. Good Luck!
