If you reach out to her she will just see it as pursuing and it will hurt your long-term goal of reconciliation. It will make you look desperate, weak, and unattractive. It will drive her further away. You are legally divorced now so you need to carve out your own path, instead of clinging to the past. It's tough but it's the only way forward.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016
