14 days of sheer hell continues

[DDJ]

@jeep, i know that i need to keep my distance and give her the space that she craves. I have one issue though...

I can see that she is acting like a randy 18 year old teenager. She has an extremely healthy sex drive and now a very big imagination to boot. I have a boundary about cheating, and she's not actually done that yet. But i can see that she might say yes to the first tom, dick and harry. If she does cheat, then she will be dead to me. I will contest for 100% custody and I will attach everything that I can to the divorce. That is a boundary that I refuse to allow to be broken.

Now, do i satisfy her craving in the hope that it will stop her from cheating or do i close my eyes and let her cheat - it is her choice - knowing that that will be the end of us anyhows?

I need as much input from as many people as possible please - Sandi i need your answer too. I cannot believe that i'm asking this question, i'm gonna hold back the tears.