We talked last night about working towards the D together. Meaning doing as much "figuring out" without lawyers. Hopefully that works for financial reasons, but I guess my only fear is it will probably be a quicker process by not involving lawyers. Believe me, not that I want to spend 10k just to prolong this to see if I can save it, but it does suck knowing this may go quicker than I originally thought it might.

She certainly does seem more at peace when we talk about moving forward towards the D.


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16