@sandi2, I have read all of cadet's homework. I am on this site every second when i'm at work. Luckily there is nothing else for me to do, so am schooling myself.
I am yet to commit to buying a book, but know that I have to. Its not available as an ebook tho, so what would i tell the wife when i start reading such a book? I don't normally read.
@Painter, she has always been drinking as a way to deal with her problems, and I have always allowed it. I cannot allow it anymore, and she's been more sober over the last month than any that i can remember. So no, I have not spoken to a lawyer, as she can control her liquor intake, but shes never been given a proper boundary. I did threaten to leave her 1 year into our R if she did not get some control, this lasted a month and then i just let it happen. I cannot let it happen anymore, not in my house.
My library had the book. I took it out numerous times before buying.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
