Oh, and stop checking up on her. You know now she is lying. No need to continue to open the wound. The more I wanted more proof--just to be sure--the more I opened myself up for them to gang up on me.
Finally I decided proof was not important. Their relationship was inappropriate weather it was an A, an EA, or a friendship I was excluded from. How they defined their R had no bearing on the fact that it hurt me and was disrespectful to me. I am worth more than that. I didn't believe it at the time, but now looking back I see how they are a much better fit for each other. They are both heartless and desperate, and the less I obsess over the fact that they are together, the worse they look to everyone.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17