The agreement in the D clause was once a week supervised visit during the weekends (due to his violent outburst). Somehow, things got complicated during the period where we were trying (or was he pretending?) to reconcile. This was pre-DBing. Somehow he ended up having dinner with kid every night. At first I joined them but I stopped after the D went through because I was gutted by the tricks he pulled.
To the xh, anything that is not to his liking is seen as a form of control. So if I am to express my concern about how kid is spending time with his family instead of him, he is so going to go berserk again.
Sad how I am still walking on eggshells around him even after the D. But I guess the path of least resistance would be to say that my family and I need more time with kid. He has no reason to get angry at this reason.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
