Hi Tam, I think the more you can pull back the better. I wouldn't ask him for another chance......it's he who needs to ask you for that given all circumstances!

Let him be, and let things implode with OW - in the meantime, pull right back and live your own life as if he'll not return.

If he ever does want to - well, you can consider that at that point xx


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus